Happy valentine’s day in advance lovelies. ❤️

i am excited today because this is my first valentine post on this platform with you all.

This is something i have always wanted to talk about because i feel like a lot of people feel lost and sad on this day , especially when they don’t get gifts or they are not in a relationship. To be honest, i have been a part of this club for so long. i have never gotten a “valentine’s day gift” from anyone and i have been single for most of my life anyways(lol). Initially, as much as i love this day, as it approaches, i start feeling what i call the “valentine’s day fever” when i start thinking about life choices and why i am not part of those experiencing the love( i am still trying to understand the whole love concept self) or i begin to check myself and my self esteem begins to drop. Now don’t get me wrong, i love seeing people around me happy, it makes me very happy to see that i am part of their happiness ( is that weird?).

Last year, i made a choice never to feel like this again and promised to get rid of the fever by coming up with some tips of my own. Although this tips can be tweaked and adjusted to how you want them. This year’s valentine is going to be celebrated in school which is exciting because it always gets interesting here;

1. The reason for the day. Don’t forget the reason for this day is to show love generally, not only the romantic love but the unromantic love as well. so take your time out and show love to people who don’t get it on a normal day, to friends. Put a smile on somebody’s face, it could be through gifts, actions, laughs, words. you could even pray for someone.
2. Love yourself. “when you become the image of your own imagination, its the most powerful thing you could ever do”- Rupaul. you don’t have to be in a relationship to realize how powerful you are. Always remember that nobody can love you as much as you love yourself , so when you recognize your power, you attract the right person. so valentine’s day should be used to reflect on yourself.
3. Treat yourself. You don’t have to be in a relationship or receive gift from people before you get yourself something nice. Get something for yourself, something out of the ordinary . it could be a gift that you cherish or something you have been dying to get, now is the chance to spoil yourself (like that shawarma i have been craving🤤😲).
4. Watch a movie . Which could be implied as netflix and chill. watch something that makes you happy and laugh. watch things that make you appreciate love too. just do your own thing (i am going to be watching skinny girls in transit by the way. Season 6 is out 💃😁)
5. Keep yourself busy. In other words, have a spa day, you could go for a massage, eat good food, do your skills, basically what makes you happy. luckily for me, i don’t have classes on that day at all💃😁, so i just keep that day to doing my val’s day makeup look ( Are you going to be working on that day, or do you have classes?). you can go out, read a book, whatever it is you want to do.
6. Spend time with people who love you and who you love. Don’t waste your time moping around. use it to visit friends at home or (in my case, in their rooms) and families, call your loved ones, chat with them .
7. Wear something that makes you feel good. You have the right to turn up a notch. wear that sexy dress, or that colour you know looks good on you but you don’t wear often. you are missing the whole point if you think you have to be with someone to dress up.
8. Be grateful. Instead of looking back at the things you don’t have, get a journal and write out five things you are grateful for. think about those things that are going well in your life or some experiences you are looking forward to having this year and be grateful for them.( what are you most grateful for?).
9. Just do your own thing. just do your own thing, you might just decide to chill at home and eat some really good food. know that valentine’s day is for you and you should do things that make you happy. make it your day.

In essence, jut be you and what makes you happy. And if you are reading this and you are in relationship, YAYYYY❤️❤️❤️💗 try to spend time with your partner and do something nice for him/her in your own little way(remember it’s the thought that counts)…..am really happy for you and hope you will enjoy this day just like i will.

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